I never know i can dance~~ haha....touch trainin process..but fun and exciting!

 

Thanks for dear carograher Angela and her dear make-up artist for my make over for the event.

 

 

If my boss is not on business trip, I wouldnt have left office on time =>

If my colleagues wasn't heading towards the same direction with me, I wouldnt have crossed the road =>

If I did not cross the road, I wouldnt have met the couple friends in Lau Pa Sat and wouldnt have talked with them =>

If I did not stop by Lau Pa Sat, I would have crossed the zebra crossing earlier =>

If i crossed the zebra crossing earlier => I wouldnt have been shocked by the huge truck....

 

The scene was still flashing in my mind, the braking sound, my scream, other pedestrians' shocking sounds.........

 

The truch was turning right from robinson road to a narrow road. Rather than reducing the speed, appareantly,  he enjoyed too much the companion of the lady sitting at the passenger seat , I guess, OR tried to impress her by his wonderful turning skills, he speeded up when i was in the middle of the zebra crossing.

 

I could have died...or injuried.....but i was happy that it was not true. I am still intactly alive....then i decided that today is a bad day for me and i really should go home quickly and safely and stay home. I tried to walk firmly, watch out cars carefully and tried my best to reach home fast yet safe.

 

I couldnt stop asking me, will i regret accompanying the colleague for the short journey if anything bad happened to me? will i regret being really hash with a friend whose bday is today just becos i dont like his attitude? will i regret forgetting saying I love you daddy mummy last nite when we were having video conference?will i....?

 

I realize that i couldnt know and wouldnt know the answers. But, i do know that this didnt happen and i do have my chance to continue my happy life. However, it did remind me that "DO treat ur everyday as your last day, and ENJOY every single second of it -- being quarreling with friend (at least u hv a friend who u can be angry with), struggling with your work (at least u have a job to struggle with) or whatever suffer u thought you are having (at least you are ALIVE to suffer) haha!

 

YEAH! Happily LIVING everyday!

昨天和一个很久没有见的朋友吃饭，一个我心目中的传奇人物。我没有想过一年多不见，人的变化竟然可以这么大。到底什么变了，我到现在还没有体会出来，可是那种变化渗透在他的举手投足之间，难以言喻。

 

本以为一位朋友很久没有见面了，聊聊天会是件很开心的事情，可是不知道为什么总觉得心里闷闷的。回家的MRT上，我终于知道了，因为今天的主人不快乐。是的，坐在一个精致的餐馆，吃着昂贵的美味，空气中的快乐细胞却不成正比。

 

其实，我也许过于主观了，快乐本身就不是个什么东西，定义也随着不同人的追求所变。他现在有的也许是很多人正在追求却得不到的。又也许，他现在想追求的正是我们每个人都拥有的。

 

真不知道下一次见面会是什么时候，而他又会变成什么样子。忽然之间，很想对所有以前认识朋友们问候一句：你们好吗？快乐吗？

 

My first time in Chinese Garden since i have come Singapore. Partly the ticket is not as cheap yet it is so far away and so crowded on the day. Finally, this year, under the "special" arrangement of Mr Brandon Ong, I visited Chinese Garden. HaHa....Not too bad....though it was really hot and i was in my office dress which made the climbing thing difficult.

 

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Six Tips for Happiness

Advice from Tal Ben-Shahar.

Tai Ben- Shahar is a lecturer in Harvard University. Twice a week, he gave classes to some 900 students who attend his class on what he calls "how to get happy." He achieved personal happiness by taking himself off the tenure track -- because not having to publish makes him happy. His class offers research from the relatively new field of positive psychology, which focuses on what makes people happy, rather than just their pathologies.

1. Give yourself permission to be human. When we accept emotions -- such as fear, sadness, or anxiety -- as natural, we are more likely to overcome them. Rejecting our emotions, positive or negative, leads to frustration and unhappiness.

2. Happiness lies at the intersection between pleasure and meaning. Whether at work or at home, the goal is to engage in activities that are both personally significant and enjoyable. When this is not feasible, make sure you have happiness boosters, moments throughout the week that provide you with both pleasure and meaning.

3. Keep in mind that happiness is mostly dependent on our state of mind, not on our status or the state of our bank account. Barring extreme circumstances, our level of well being is determined by what we choose to focus on (the full or the empty part of the glass) and by our interpretation of external events. For example, do we view failure as catastrophic, or do we see it as a learning opportunity?

4. Simplify! We are, generally, too busy, trying to squeeze in more and more activities into less and less time. Quantity influences quality, and we compromise on our happiness by trying to do too much.

5. Remember the mind-body connection. What we do -- or don't do -- with our bodies influences our mind. Regular exercise, adequate sleep, and healthy eating habits lead to both physical and mental health.

6. Express gratitude, whenever possible. We too often take our lives for granted. Learn to appreciate and savor the wonderful things in life, from people to food, from nature to a smile. 

 

New office is so different from my previous one....not gonna complain about the clock in-clock out system, not gonna complain about the daily time table entry, not gonna complain about not hving a free flow of stationary supply, not gonna say anything about not being able to install any software in my pc........of cos, the rule of shutting down pc/monitor is just a small case.....There ARE so so so so many new things to make me feel like i must work really hard like a little bee...

 

What is "hub and spoke" biz model? what is subsidiary? what is branch? what is the difference? what is merger? what is the rules and regulations in CIRC? what is......

 

I am a bit overwhelmed i guess.....but yeah. i will try my BEST! Like a little hard working bee~~~~

 

 

Tmr is my first day of new work. So EXCITED!  Got my new haircut, got a couple of new clothes, got a new bag, got a lot alot of new things i have nv tried b4. I hope and I am sure that this will be a great start for me!

 

Visited my old colleagues today and so excited to find out that some of them might be moving nearer to my new working place too! Yeah, i will hv so many wonderful meal companions soon!

 

GALs~ I AM COMING!!!!!

最近赋闲在家。。。。

 

真是优哉游哉啊。。。。。^_^ 

人生真是个玄乎的东西，当你不知道你的重心在哪里的时候，老天自然会安排些事儿给你提个醒。

 

喜怒哀乐生离死别，每个人都逃不过这么一些子事儿，只是不论如何的准备筹划，真正面对的时候，又有多少人能真的从容不迫，心如止水呢？

 

到底是应该及时行乐、不枉此生呢，还是要细致安排、未雨绸缪？ 个人心里都有自己的那把小称八。

 

近日太过于大起大落大喜大悲，特此留笔。

人与人之间是有区别的吧。

最近大家都是鸿运高照啊。=)

 

恭喜恭喜小水终于上岸了。。。离开了学校，要出来混啦！

 

大家工作离得越来越近，都凑到一块儿去了。。。记得出来吃饭饭啊。。。。穆哈哈。

 

 

今天早上还在考虑到底是要去Macritchie 还是 Lower Pierce Kayaking....考虑之后决定去Macritchie le....玩得还是很不错的，一起的还有一个印度家庭。

 

晚上回来一看新闻，一对Indian Couple 在Lower Pierce Kayaking, 女的在几个小时后在岸边发现，男的失踪了！

 

心里直冒冷汗。险！

朋友们， 米袋子回来咯。。。。

 

一眨眼一年多了。。。除草除草。。。

 

JB 结婚咯。。。vishal帅哥也是engage le....恭喜一个先！vishal 就要去美国了，先说一句珍重！xx还是一幅吊儿郎当的样子，看了就很不爽，哼，老是欺负人。HX胸怀大志的要买屋子，快点哦，我还等着租呢！

 

Rascle要去美国了，以后又多一个留美华裔博士。Cat一个人在那里逍遥，不要忘了我的东西！！！Liu Yi, 加油！我对你很有信心！几年后回来要找我们哦！会怀念捏青你的手臂，而保护你不给别的女孩子垂涎的那个晚上，以及Rachel和Cat那一幅老教的态度。哈哈。

 

在一个不是自己本行的岗位上一年的经历，可以说算是可圈可点。很欣慰自己一路走来算是没有浪费青春。

在一个是本行的岗位上一年的磨练，很多很多说不出来的感觉。很庆幸自己活了过来，接受了考验和挑战，得到了基本的肯定。被Adrian戏称为小松鼠也算是不错的赞赏了八。最最感谢照顾我的Cookie gorgor and Rain sis. 我会继续加油的！

 

最近很是期待的一个愿望希望可以实现哦。

 

 

 

ah....finally i m back le.....long time no see...hope everyone still remembers me...haha

 

 

started my new CHAPTER of the life...i started my NEW job!!!

 

ok. i am going out soon. will come back in a short while.....

hee.......so lucky........my first gamble in the whole life time won!!!!!:D:D:D:D

thank you Uke and Spain for helping me win the bet! haha........hee....

of coz also thanks bibi for deciding the bet for me...........hee....hee....

好像很久没有这样的闲空了。。。坐在电脑前面，我竟然不知道要做什么。。。。

做作业？我的GPS reading & Cell Tower tracking还没有搞定呢。。。我的intern project几百年没有更新了。。。我的php做到一半还交不了差阿。。。我的parallel project也还是没有落地。。。可是，可是，我怎么能够在这里做作业呢！

一个美女睡在身边。。。跟一个男生炫耀了一下，换来了一句 “so?" 是啊，SO?偶又不是断臂的。。。不过出于纯粹的欣赏不行么。。。。哼。。。男生还真是goal oriented.....

今天suppose是来party的，Nie同学打着“我想你”的旗号，把我拽了过来，弄得我痛哭流涕的第一时间赶来了。。。结果我在她家门口徘徊的时候，她自己正在肯吃肯吃得吃晚饭。。。等下要教训一下她。不可轻饶。。。

其实我不是party得料，时间久了我就头痛。。。不论打牌，打麻将，看电视，聊天，唱歌。。。所以等下还是适可而止。。。早点回家家哦。。。。。 

今天很愚蠢。。。带了电脑没有带电源。。。不到5分钟电脑就hybernate了。。。结果辛辛苦苦背来的电脑考试的时候没有派到用处啊。。。。偏偏他的题目竟然还都是要google那么一下子的。。。死到很难看啊。。。而且死不瞑目！！！没事，有xx,jb,wdJJ,偶们project好好做。。。我会及格的。。。我来serial port好了。。。^_^

JB哥哥很好人的送我回家，等我放电脑，又送我去美女家。。。。啊。。。。导致了刚才我描述的一幕的发生。。。幸亏我福大命大。。。不用饱受闭门羹。。。heehee.........

好了。。。罗嗦完了。。。想必我键盘声音很大。。。美女好像翻来覆去睡不着呢。。。。。嘘。。。。